Sunday, March 8, 2009

My Baby Girl....

So I just got done reading my baby's blogs and have something to say about it. As for the boy-man you dated for 5 years... Yes, my love, he will always be in the back of your mind somewhere. Not on a daily basis...slowly he will go away. But there will be a movie, a song, a building, a tree... something will make you think of him and the years that you spent together. Your mama is 42 years old and still think of my first love once in a while. He was a year older than me, we were together for 3 years and we were convinced we were going to be married. His favorite food was cheeseburgers and onion rings, his favorite color was green, his first vehicle was a green small pick-up truck, we had his mom's homemade pizza every Sunday; he liked to smoke pot with his best friend "Tim" and it was the beginning of the end. So you see, even after all this time, I remember him well. Is my heart still broke? Nope. But it was for a long time and other guys felt weird, everything about them, felt weird... you know what I mean, I'm sure.
Girls, we need those first loves... we need to feel that care-free, the world revolves around just the two of us, we are going to spend our lives together, endless kind of love! It prepares us for our future, it teaches us what to look for in a mate and what we don't want to have in a partner. Just roll with it, let it happen and be glad that it did. Don't have regrets about things within the relationship or the fact that it is over. Just be willing to let your heart close one chapter of your life because God says that it's time for a new chapter of your life, with other people, other things and new memories and lessons to be learned.
Life's hardest chapters are the ones where the pages stick together and turning them is nearly impossible; but if you try real hard to pull the pages apart, there is a whole new fairy tale waiting to be yours. Turn the page and let time happen, you will never know what your future holds if you stay within the stuck pages of your life. That was never God's plan for you, so don't hold back. Expect that things are exactly how they are supposed to be, right now. The path you planned to travel down may not be the one that will get you to where God needs you to be. So take an exhileratingly deep breath and dare..............I love you Puss, Mama

1 comment:

  1. Moms are always full of wisdom and stories to make their daughters feel better! This was cute.

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